May We Not All Love Alike?

Let us therefore make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification. -Romans 14:18 (NIV)

I guess I've become resigned to the fact that there will always be differences of opinion. Some would say that it's these differences that make the world a more beautiful place. But too often I see people (including myself) using their differing viewpoints as weapons against others. Oh how that must pain the heart of God!

In today's suggested readings, Paul points out that we are to welcome those who think differently but not just so that we'll have someone to argue with! He notes that we should not judge others, pointing out their flaws and shortcomings. Instead, we should look at our own lives- examining how the things we say and do affect others (even causing others to stumble or be less than God wants them to be). But the most helpful thing to me that Paul says in this chapter is that we should make every effort to do the things that result in peace (which does not mean simply the absence of conflict but that which is for the highest good) and edification of all people.

I'm reminded of words attributed to John Wesley (the founder of the Methodist movement): "though we may not all think alike, may we not all love alike?" If we allow ourselves to be guided by the principle of love, then we are less likely to use our opinions as weapons against others.

I wish we could all just get along. But when we disagree, making every effort to do what leads to the peace and edification of others sounds like pretty good advice to me.

May God grant you the grace to be an agent of peace and edification today.